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内向又害羞的你,如何与邻里建立联系?

I have lived in my present house for 11 years. But I know very little about my neighbors. It’s not that I don’t want to know my neighbors. I am just quiet and shy. While some people are happy to invite the whole street to a dinner party, some of us will never be that outgoing. Here are a few ways for the rest of us.

The easiest way to get to know the people in your neighborhood is to go outside. Spend time in your front yard at a certain time. Sit in front of the door at the same time every day and finally someone will say hello. If you feel strange just sitting there, pick up a hobby that you can do in your front yard, like reading, bird watching, or drinking tea.

Then, you can look for community activities that you can drop into, chat a little, and leave whenever you want. When there is an activity going on, the focus won’t be on you, making it easier to communicate with people. Try five minutes; if you have to bail, no one will notice.

If you are interested in gardening, you will notice the neighbors who are also into gardening. Ask them about their garden! Asking questions is the easiest way to connect because you are placing the focus on the other person. If you have a dog, talk to other dog people on your walks. If you have a kid, ask other parents about stuff to do with kids.

If you are wondering why it’s good to be friendly with your neighbors, keep reading.

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